I’m so here for “vain” girls. Girls who dab at their waterline because crying could mess up their make up. Girls who spend a lot of time looking in the mirror. Girls who worry about breaking their nails. Girls who worry if they don’t have exfoliating wash or lotion for a day. Girls who contour and girls who do face masks and girls who worry about missing a spot shaving and girls who get their eyebrows done. You’re capable of caring a lot about your appearance and other things, and caring a lot about your appearance does not make you bad, or shallow, or less deserving of respect.
this post is weird bc im gna go ahead and assume 99% of girls so fixated on their appearence to such an intense degree arent “””vain””” but incredibly self conscious because of the pressure to be beautiful in order to be worthy of respect. like if you have a panic attack over your appearence not being perfect i dont think that necessarily means ur vain but maybe just that women are under immense pressure to look perfect at all times. this just makes me sad like you should be ok in your own skin and being ugly sometimes but like……….. ok. vain i guess.
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