this lady i met who’s a social worker said that her husband (who works in IT) always says that her job doesn’t bring anything to their family and i nearly popped off. “your job is vital to society, anyone could do your husband’s job our society needs more roles cantered around sensitivity and care. your job may not bring much to your family financially but it gives much more in other ways etc etc etc” and then she started getting really aggressively defensive of her dickhead husband like no offence but what was i meant to do in that situation she set me up